What is LOVE????????

LOVE....

• People wonder what is LOVE....
• I and you, we wonder what is LOVE...
• There are people who get LOVE, and there are people who Search for LOVE
• But, does any one of us exactly know what is LOVE????

Well, It can be defined in many ways

1. GOOGLE'S first definition is : a strong positive emotion of regard and affection
2. Some will define it as : any object of warm affection or devotion
3. For some, LOVE is a feeling
4. For me, I agree with Stephen Covey : 'LOVE is a verb'

LOVE is a verb

Yes, Love is a word, which can be considered as a verb...

To love, means to care, to sacrifice, to listen, to understand, to believe, to trust, to support, to respect...

Love is postulated as a feeling by 'love stories' and movies...

You don't need to have a feeling to be affectionate to a person or to adore someone, it has not to come from heart... You can love a person by your behaviour towards that person, by believing that LOVE is a verb and not a feeling, by truly living with loving, That's what will lead you in a good relationship.

A good relationship with your spouse, parents, mate, friends, family, boss, colleagues, and even strangers.

Think about the LOVE of our mother,

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  She sacrifices for us.
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  She cares for us.
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  She listens to us.
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  She believes us.

All these when put together, we call it LOVE - The feeling.

At first when you read this, you might just say that 'Nash has gone nuts', but think about it. here let me give you another example

A person who is in a failing marriage would say 'Me and my wife, we don't have that feeling anymore, the feeling of LOVE has gone'

But actually, the person and his wife, they have stopped understanding each other, caring for each other, and they are at a stage where they don't want to talk it out. It's an excuse that is used to avoid facing the real problem.

How easy it is to say 'there is no feeling', but its so hard to say that 'I am responsible for the situation', or to say 'I don't care for him/her anymore', or to say 'we don't listen to eachother'. No one would say any of these sentences, because it will reflect their incompetence to face the predicament they are into. Saying that 'there is no feeling anymore' will get you out of such situation easily.

One is responsible for one's own situation, but if it's regarding LOVE, just by believing in LOVE by different perception will sort the problem out.

Think about it... and shed some light in the comment section