KARMA and Our life revolving around it...

Do we exactly understand Karma (English - deeds, good or bad)?

I guess, YES...

We know about KARMA, its effects on us... We define them as
PAAP(Eng - sins) and PUNIYA(Eng - virtue).

Now, we also know that 'SHRIMAD BHAGAVAD GITA' says, "Karma kiye ja, fal ki chinta na kar (English- Do the deeds without expecting anything in return)"
In other words, If we are doing some deed, we should not worry about getting something in return.

I think this is the exact thing that humans do... nobody thinks of the consequences while doing bad deeds, but people expect something while doing good deeds.......

We even have heard from BHAGAVAD GITA, "Puniya ki icha se ache karma karoge to puniya nahi milega (English - If we expect to get virtue while doing good deeds, we won't get any virtue)"

I agree...
But just to balance the natural laws, don't we have to also believe that "Paap ki icha se bure karma karoge to paap nahi milega (English - If we expect to add sins by doing bad deeds, we won't be adding those sins)"

I know, I am being offensive and quite un-understable... But think about it...

I have discarded everything from my mind and I only believe this:

If we intentionally do bad deeds - We add up sins
If we unintentionally do bad deeds - We are forgiven
If we intentionally do good deeds - We get no sins, and no virtue
If we unintentionally do good deeds - We receive virtue

What do you guys think....
Shed some light.. I am Naive, and you need to guide me

What is LOVE????????

LOVE....

• People wonder what is LOVE....
• I and you, we wonder what is LOVE...
• There are people who get LOVE, and there are people who Search for LOVE
• But, does any one of us exactly know what is LOVE????

Well, It can be defined in many ways

1. GOOGLE'S first definition is : a strong positive emotion of regard and affection
2. Some will define it as : any object of warm affection or devotion
3. For some, LOVE is a feeling
4. For me, I agree with Stephen Covey : 'LOVE is a verb'

LOVE is a verb

Yes, Love is a word, which can be considered as a verb...

To love, means to care, to sacrifice, to listen, to understand, to believe, to trust, to support, to respect...

Love is postulated as a feeling by 'love stories' and movies...

You don't need to have a feeling to be affectionate to a person or to adore someone, it has not to come from heart... You can love a person by your behaviour towards that person, by believing that LOVE is a verb and not a feeling, by truly living with loving, That's what will lead you in a good relationship.

A good relationship with your spouse, parents, mate, friends, family, boss, colleagues, and even strangers.

Think about the LOVE of our mother,

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  She sacrifices for us.
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  She cares for us.
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  She listens to us.
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  She believes us.

All these when put together, we call it LOVE - The feeling.

At first when you read this, you might just say that 'Nash has gone nuts', but think about it. here let me give you another example

A person who is in a failing marriage would say 'Me and my wife, we don't have that feeling anymore, the feeling of LOVE has gone'

But actually, the person and his wife, they have stopped understanding each other, caring for each other, and they are at a stage where they don't want to talk it out. It's an excuse that is used to avoid facing the real problem.

How easy it is to say 'there is no feeling', but its so hard to say that 'I am responsible for the situation', or to say 'I don't care for him/her anymore', or to say 'we don't listen to eachother'. No one would say any of these sentences, because it will reflect their incompetence to face the predicament they are into. Saying that 'there is no feeling anymore' will get you out of such situation easily.

One is responsible for one's own situation, but if it's regarding LOVE, just by believing in LOVE by different perception will sort the problem out.

Think about it... and shed some light in the comment section

When we want friends.... They must be there

IMAGINE....


You have had a CRISIS and you are having a bad time. Who would you look upto..

1. Parents
• What if it's a problem with your parents?
• You can't tell either of your parents, because you fear it might get worst.
• What if it's something you can't tell your parents?
• You can't tell your parents about your girl/boy friend, or if you have certain sex related issues. Well only 10% of Indian parents are flexible for that discussion
• What if the topic that upsets you might even upset your parents much more than you?
• There are certain issues which you might feel should stay away from your folks to keep the atmosphere calm and steady.
2. Girlfriend/Boyfriend
• What if it's a problem with them?
• Very few people have the guts to confront their mates. if you are not one of them, you won't say anything to them.
• What if your parents have refused you from dating that person?
• You can't go and ask a solution from your mate directly. You can only do that if your mate is smart enough to think and not get angry on you.
• What if you wanna dump them?
• In India, you have to come up with a diplomatic solution. Can you do that alone?
3. Teachers
• They are of no use if your problem is not study related.
4. FRIENDS
• They are the best. Here are the reasons
• You have a problem with a friend, you go to another friend fof help.
• You have a parents' issue, Talk it out to a friend, you will atleast feel better.
• You have a girl/boy friend's issue, no one els but friends can help you with this. think about it.
• You wanna dump someone, make your friend come up with a solution.
• Friends even help you with studies. won't they?

SUMMARY:


You can either go to your family,mates,teachers or friends when you are in trouble, but only FRIENDS are a guarantee that you will be helped.


If you don't hav friends, MAKE SOME NOW.
If you have friends, CHERISH THEM NOW.




Please tell me your great experiences with your friends... share it with everyone.. type them down on comments section........

Check out my few best moments with friends on the blogpost below...

http://naimishsanghvi.blogspot.com/2010/08/my-college-friends.html



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